Today, the folks at the post office told Andrea that spring arrived at 1:30 this morning. I awoke to the sound of ice pellets hitting the window. When I stepped out of the carport this morning, I saw the groundhog that has taken up residence near our house. We had several hours of freezing rain through the day which turned to snow about the time I was shutting my cubicle down for the weekend. The accumulation in the driveway looks to be about 8 inches.
Tonight, my brother called. He lives in our first house which is about 3 hours’ drive south of here. He has no snow. He had rain and freezing rain today. We have an 8 foot bank in front of our house. It is officially spring, none the less.
My mother’s mother died in childbirth when my mother was 4. Her father remarried and my mother has 7 half brothers and sisters. About 5 1/2 years before I was born, my mother’s father died of cancer. In her early 40′s with 6 children still at home, Grammy married again. Her second husband died in the ’80s. At the time, they were parenting 3 of his grandchildren (the youngest was my age).
This morning, my Grammy and only grandparent for the last 14 years passed away a few hours into spring.
While I was growing up I did not have alot of contact with any of my grandparents. Our next door neighbour was 80 years older than me and had been a widower since the 40′s. Even though I called him Mr. So-and-so, he was the closest thing I had to a grandparent type relationship. He passed away at 88. I was grieved to the point that I wanted to cry but simply could not collect myself enough to do it. I said virtually nothing and avoided any contact I could for days.
My second grandfather died less than a week after my 12th birthday. I liked Grampie every bit as much as Mr. So-and-so, but I had only seen him over a handful of visits. I spent Valentine’s week in 1994 on a return trip to Ontario for my other Grammy’s funeral. Our anniversary is in 3 days. There is never a convenient time to lose someone dear.
In preparing to write this post, I did not want to say how grieved I am or how much I will miss her. But that, on it’s own would, either seem a bit callous or that it was due to her character. And, I didn’t want that.
What I did want to say is that I liked her. And I expect that there are very few who survived her and knew her who feel other wise.
Farewell, Grammy. You made it to spring.